Ysabella Brave

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MaryAnne Ysabella (born 4 December 1979) is an American vocalist and performer more widely known by her web name Ysabella Brave. Her YouTube channels, ysabellabrave (for her singing and comedic performances), and ysabellabravetalk (in which she discusses questions and concerns of her fans) are among the site's most popular.

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  • Hi, new people — there's a lot of new people. Welcome to the family. We're a little weird here, but we're all very nice — so you'll fit in here. We're kind of intense — but you'll figure it out.
  • I appreciate that you have your own tastes, but — give me a break!
    • On being asked to return to her "natural" brunette hair, when actually she is naturally a blonde who occassionally dyes her hair darker, in "This Just In!" (30 January 2007)
  • I went, and I was rejected immediately — like that. First chance I got to sing, they said "you have a very excellent voice, it's amazing, blah, blah, blah — not what we're looking for." And that was it. And you know, thinking about it later: I don't think it's really for me — you know what I mean? That's all we're going to say about that. Let's move on.
    • On trying out for "American Idol" in "This Just In!" (30 January 2007)
  • Don't you think that it's amazing that I'm singing into this silly camera with the desk lamp, and it's going through all these wires and everything else, and these computers, and you still feel what I'm feeling, and you still get what I'm trying to do? Yeah. I think its amazing. And I think it's so nice in a period when we're very isolated people, and kind of emotionless people, I think it's great that we can still touch one another and we can still feel what we're feeling, and we can still have fun, and we can be sad, and we can be happy, and to know that someone cares about you — because I really do. I really do.
    And I can't believe that I have over 10,000 subscribers. What is wrong with you people?
    • "This Just In!" (30 January 2007)
  • Many people have said since the beginning - actually, all my life - "don't you suppose you were born in the wrong era - the wrong time?" Well, I don't think so at all! Because, don't you see, I can come into your home, in your office, and wherever you are, and sing to you these silly songs. And I'm just a simple lady, and I can show you how much I love you very much, and share these feelings with you. And I don't know that could have been done really this way at any other time. So I think that I was born at just the right time - wouldn't you say?
  • I've been told I sound like I'm out of an old movie; that perhaps I'm faking my voice, that it's nice, that it's not nice — all kinds of things. Well it's my voice. The only thing I can think of is sometimes you're in one mood or another mood, and so maybe it sounds a little different, but I've always spoken this way — and I'm trying to sound pleasant — I hope it does sound pleasant, but that's about it.
  • There is a big difference you see between privately letting someone know that you're displeased, whether they've done something they may not be aware of, and just rudeness — and you do not have to tolerate rudeness, by any means.
    • Advice to new YouTuber afraid of criticism "ysabellabravetalk #1" (9 March 2007)
  • I had no idea how much music and singing really means to people, and in my own tiny way to be a part of that is very humbling and very sweet, and and I feel very honored. ... I have a great appreciation for this, in every ways and a new understanding, and I'm just as amazed as anyone else.
    • Response to a question on whether her increasing fame has changed her in any way. "ysabellabravetalk #1" (9 March 2007)
  • You know you're already brave. You don't get very far in life without having to be brave an awful lot. Because we all have our frightening moments and difficult trials and we don't have much of a choice but to get through 'em, and it takes a lot of bravery to do that. The most important thing about bravery is this — It's not about not being scared — it's about being scared and doing it anyway — that's bravery.
  • You need to laugh more. Life is filled with too many problems, to not laugh every day. ... We need to have a sense of humor going into this because it's too tough without it.
    • "Everyday Bravery" (25 March 2007)
  • So, it's just no hope. I cant be cool. I tried with the giant sunglasses — no dice. Sorry. I remain dorky forever. So — it's okay.
  • I believe in a God…, Who…, whether we understand it now or ever will…, does the thing for us…, which is the best thing for us..., out of Love…, even if it’s painful. And I think that’s the truth. So, if you’re in a great pain, and if you’re suffering, remember that this is… in the middle…, and that you’re on your way…, some place…, and it’s beneficial to you…, and even better than that, it might be beneficial to others…, so, that what I have to say to that tonight…, I know it’s… short…, I hope it’s sweet, and…, I’ll see you next time…, so, good night…
  • Hears the music under the rock
    One of these days he'll stop
    Don't stop when the music stops.
    • "Such a Quiet Man (original song!)", the first original song she posted to YouTube, about which she wrote: "I got bored so I wrote this song tonight. The music, instruments, the lyrics, backup vocals, everything was me. And yes it is TOTALLY WEIRD!!!!!!" (13 May 2007)
  • I've been asked by a lot of new YouTube people or other singers — all kinds of professions, frankly, as to whether I feel very successful and very loved now that I've got bup-up-up-up subscribers and however many nice comments and sweetness, and I really, really do! I was thinking going into this that the odds were against me — you're online, there's this anonymity, people are mean sometimes, and still considering all that, it's overwhelming the sweetness and the affection that I am getting — I'm every day impressed by this — every day! And there are a lot of horrible, horrible people on here, just like there is in the rest of the world. But remember, don't be overcome with evil — overcome evil with good.
  • I didn't enter into this to get any kind of affirmation or confirmation. I entered into this to see what I could do for other people — to give them my sincerity, to give them my love and my care, to take a load off, to have a smile, to have a memory or two.
    • "Self Esteem" (31 May 2007)
  • Singing the blues has always been about alleviating the blues, and that's apparent when you listen to them. Sure is nice to hear that someone else is, or has been where you are, or have been. Because we forget sometimes, that we're all in this together, and we have many, many similar experiences — all the time, all across the world, in every age.
    • "Self Esteem" (31 May 2007)
  • If you're coming into this YouTube thing, do it because of what you can do for other people... Don't worry so much about yourself, and if you're doing ok, and if you love yourself — you do, trust me. Think of what you can do for other people... Not some kind of self review, not some kind of day or week or however long to make sure you feel good about yourself — but thinking about the other people all around you, all the time, who could always — always use a hand, one way or another, even if it's kindness. Think of that instead.
    • "Self Esteem" (31 May 2007)
  • And maybe you are starting to notice my quote on the page "Look without, and you will be fulfilled within — without a doubt." I really mean that — look without, without of yourself — not within.
    • "Self Esteem" (31 May 2007)
  • You're doing OK. You're always doing OK — however bad you think you are doing — this is another page of the book. But remember the responsibility you can have, or the power you can have, to make the sun shine a little brighter for the person next to you. Even if you never see them again — it will mean the world to them, what you can do.
    • "Self Esteem" (31 May 2007)
  • I'm really proud of you for having come this far — every single one of you, wherever you are, you're on your way — you are getting there! And — don't worry so much! Just — that's what we need to stop doing — stop worrying so much, and start observing a little bit more.
    • "Self Esteem" (31 May 2007)
  • I want to share with you a couple of the kinds of letters I've been getting ...
    Dear Ysabella, My friend is hurting themselves. I'd like to know if I should tell someone about this, because I don't want my friend to be mad at me.
    Ok, I don't care if your friend is mad at you - I don't want them to be dead! You need to spread the word - they've let you know - you need to talk to a family member you can trust of theirs, someone at school, someone at work - you need to talk to somebody that can get them some help. Because I'd rather they be mad at me and not want to be my friend - and alive - than anything else, ok?
    ... The second letter:
    My boyfriend is hitting me ... how can I break up with him without being mean?
    ... Now, when someone's looking for a doormat, they don't care whether it's mean or nice - they just want to know 'can they wipe their feet on it?' ... The next time you see a little girl ... imagine if she was in the situation you are in. What would want for her, really? If that breaks your heart, remember in that moment that you are as valuable, and as cherished, and as loved, and as important as any woman on this planet. ... Stand up for yourself - don't be afraid to expect to be treated like a human being.
  • James — it's about your sister
    I wonder if you missed her
    I'm on my way to see you but I don't know what to bring
    Almost gave up the ghost, now you have what she wants most
    a little piece of heaven and a lovely song to sing.
  • I am speaking of something that is no longer happening - that is not currently going on. If someone is abusing you, or doing something illegal, or even something you refuse to tolerate, and it's still continuing, that is not an issue of forgiveness, that is an issue of making sure that stops - even if you have to get away from that situation - that's very important.
    If that is not the case, then we are talking about something that happened in the past, even if it was today, this morning, but it's over. You know, there are people dead and buried in their graves still affecting people, because no one ever forgave them for what they did - that's what not forgiving does - it lets an event live and live with bitterness and hurt, when it needs to be let go.
    When you forgive someone, you're not justifying what they've done - you're not saying it was ok, you're letting it go, to stay in the past, where it happened, and moving away from it, so it doesn't sink its teeth into you, and follow you wherever you go. ...
    Now do we have to forgive and forget? No! In fact sometimes it's important to remember, so that you can prevent something like that from happening again, or know that it's not ok with you, even with that person or anyone else.
    But forgiving - why not? Do it so that you can be free. And I guarantee you, you will be free of this thing. And even if you don't tell this person you've forgiven them, because sometimes you can't, it's amazing what will happen in your life, what will happen with that person, what will happen with you and other people, if you have a forgiving spirit and let it go.
  • It is easy to consider advice when it is brought forth with care, and consideration, and gentleness. Sometimes people are offended or feel manipulated if you are so blustering, you see. And it's an opportunity to be kind - you know - usually if you're giving advice, it's because you care about people and you love them. So you ought to act that way.
    ...
    If you find yourself to be a - sort of an abrasive type of person, perhaps you might try to be gentle, because the truth is that gentleness and kindness are a lot more powerful than we are led to believe. And if you are like this, and people are telling you it doesn't work, don't listen to them - do what you know is right.
  • We can be so afraid
    lost inside in search of a mother
    And yet we go about
    shouting "justice"
    and hurting one another
  • Let there be peace
    At least so blood will not flow forever
    Stop segregating yourselves and see
    that we should come together
    • "The Truth" (27 January 2008)
  • Control yourself and no one else
    And you will
    see the Truth my brother
    • "The Truth" (27 January 2008)
  • If I had asked me this about a year/year-and-a-half ago, I would have said "You can't trust everybody!" But now that I've been in the music industry, and famous, and on YouTube and stuff: "You can't trust everybody, at all."
  • Be careful what you say if you wouldn't want it broadcast everywhere — because you never know. My basic advice would be — for trust — is : Live the way you ought to live — all the time — as much as you can help it.
    • Trust — what's the secret?" (27 January 2008)
  • There's a reason that we don't go into people's homes and tell them how to live. We may not know their problem, and what it's like, so how can we know the solution? We don't say to someone who is hurting 'I know what's wrong, and it's nothing, so you shouldn't complain or be bitter.' ...
    And finally, for those who are angry at people who are sad from suffering, and racism, and stereotypes and prejudices - this is their pain. It is ok that they have pain, and that they are dealing with it the way they need to, and the way we need to. If you are thinking of yourself, it won't make much sense, because it doesn't have anything to do with you. Think of them instead. And if you really want to see someone smile, and not suffer, think of a way that you can bring them joy.
  • I've missed you too! A lot of people have been wondering where I have been, and it's not very exciting news, and it's not very good news, it's just that I've been very ill. I've been very sick for a while and still trying to get better, slowly but surely. ... Anyway, I was so overwhelmed -
    Overwhelmed,
    by all the
    nice things you
    folks said to me!

    It was so nice to read everything that everyone was saying, and very, very sweet. I appreciate all the - oh, it made me cry, and - and it was just so nice, and I wanted to say a big 'Thank you!' to everyone for being so supportive and so nice to me. ... I will be back in full swing, as much as I can, when I can, and in the mean time, I miss you all very, very much.
  • What greater thing can you do — besides for God — than good for other people? That goes for you mean people, too — I mean, really, what is your problem?
  • First I'd like to address the hecklers (cause I know you're out there!) ... There are people who contribute, people who create, and people who destroy. ... Nobody likes hecklers - nobody likes heckling - it's not interesting, it's not funny, it's certainly not appreciated, and it's of no use and no good. And it just hurts people. And I'm not sure if the intention is to hurt people, in which case you are evil - and if not, that's what you are doing, so it is not constructive, at all. The whole idea of 'I must be honest, so here is what I think' is complete baloney. If there is information you must transmit to another, you must do it empathically, or it is worthless. ...
    Essentially, what I have for you heckler victims is this: If you do what you must, and you do what is right, you are bulletproof! Don't bother changing - don't listen to any of that garbage - because it's garbage!
  • They might try to remind me
    That Such Tragedy surrounds me
    But this suffering created art
    I never found it scary... I was all undercover
    • "Undercover" (11 September 2008)
  • People have asked me to speak on being sick, and even specifically on chronic pain diseases. ... And I don't know what to tell you, except this - this is something I have discovered. Your body is fighting to live. This is in your very blood, in your heart, in your bones - your body is trying to live, it's fighting to live - and don't give up without a fight, you know? Do what you can do. Figure something out. If you have to, fight with people to get help - whatever it is, but don't give up without a fight. You remember - mark my words - you are here - you should be here - stay.
  • "And I wanted to say something before I go - I told you guys it's been a bad year - when you have these kind of moments when you are in despair, I just want to remind you that God does not take a break - he does not clock out, he doesn't get caught off-guard - there is nothing that goes on that he is not allowing. So everything is as it should be, no matter how wrong, or scary, or sad, or angry, or afraid, or any of it - everything is as it should be. And we need to remember that, and that we love Him and He loves us. Whatever we're feeling, we need to remember the truth."
    • Quote from video posted a day after both her YouTube channels were suspended (have been reinstated), two days after being laid off, and about a month after the cause of her worsening chronic pain was diagnosed as fibromyalgia (no cure or effective treatment). "Update 12/12/08" (12 December 2008)
  • "Thank you for praying for me, and wishing me well, and all the support, because I need it a lot. And inside me there is a warrior, but right now, I am a 'Golden Girl'... But I wanted to let you guys know that I have not died, and I am here, and I am going to fight with all I have got to stay - and to help. And I have never been in this bad a condition, but I am determined." "My Nightgown is Blue and I am too!" (20 March 2009)
  • "This morning, when I got my mail - there's concrete all over the ground - cement, you know - and these little clovers - the little green clovers, like from St. Patrick's Day - the plant - were growing up out of the cement - no dirt and no nothing and no rain - and there they were, growing up out of the cement, and I was thinking - 'that's like me.'" "My Nightgown is Blue and I am too!" (20 March 2009)
  • It's justice that He's bringing.
    It's hidden inside a song.
    No one's stuck in the middle...
    the battle is already won.
    "Beautiful" (08 June 2009)

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