desexualization and SM is kind of great behavior and make me pleasure
- Sex without pain is like food without taste.
- Attributed to Marquis de Sade
- The safeword is the word you use in S/M sex that means "stop"; ... it's something innocuous, like "red", "blue", "tree", "table", whatever, so I said to my friend Bucky, who was teaching me about safewords, "But Bucky, what happens if you forget the safeword? Red, blue, green, yellow, onomatopoeia, front-loading dishwasher, what?!" She said, "Maggie, you say 'I forgot the safeword, you idiot!'" ~ Maggie Cassella
- "Those who can't hear the music think the dancers are insane."