Humility is the defining characteristic of unpretentious or humble people; those who do not behave as if they were more important than others. The terms humility and modesty are often contrasted in various ways, but they are also often treated as interchangeable synonyms.
- Humilitas homines sanctis angelis similes facit, et superbia ex angelis demones facit.
- Lowliness is the base of every virtue,
And he who goes the lowest builds the safest.
- Philip James Bailey, Festus (1813), scene Home.
- By humility, and the fear of the Lord, are riches, honor, and life.
- The Bible, Proverbs 22:4.
- At very best, a person wrapped up in himself makes a small package.
- Harry Emerson Fosdick, in On Being a Real Person (1943); a similar statement has become attributed to Benjamin Franklin, but apparently only in recent decades: "A man wrapped up in himself makes a very small bundle." This seems to have been first attributed to Franklin in The New Age Magazine Vol. 66 (1958), and the earliest appearance of it yet located is in Coronet magazine, Vol. 34 (1953), p. 27, where it was attributed to a Louise Stein.
- Catch him at the moment when he is really poor in spirit and smuggle into his mind the gratifying reflection, "By jove! I'm being humble", and almost immediately pride — pride at his own humility — will appear.
- Every one that exalteth himself shall be abased; and he that humbleth himself shall be exalted.
- Luke 18:14
- If “humility” means nothing more than the capacity to learn from criticism, then it has an undoubted value; but if “humility” means a willingness to submit to authority—to abandon or to modify what one is doing merely because it does not accord with the teachings of the Bible or the thoughts of Chairman Mao—then it is death to the spirit: the proper name for it, indeed, is “servility.”
- John Passmore, The Perfectibility of Man, p. 289
- The most powerful weapon to conquer the devil is humility. For, as he does not know at all how to employ it, neither does he know how to defend himself from it.
- Vincent de Paul, as quoted in A Year with the Saints (1891) by Anonymous, p. 47.
- I will not be modest. Humble, as much as you like, but not modest. Modesty is the virtue of the lukewarm.
- ‘T is better to be lowly born,
And range with humble livers in content,
Than to be perked up in a glistering grief,
And wear a golden sorrow.
- Shakespeare, King Henry VIII, Act 2 scene 3
- Perfection is impossible without humility. Why should I strive for perfection, if I am already good enough?
- Leo Tolstoy, A Calendar of Wisdom, P. Sekirin, trans. (1997)
- A lever. We lower when we want to lift. In the same way, “He who humbleth himself shall be exalted.”
- Simone Weil, Gravity and Grace (1972), p. 84
Hoyt's New Cyclopedia Of Practical Quotations
- Quotes reported in Hoyt's New Cyclopedia Of Practical Quotations (1922), p. 380-81.
- He saw a cottage with a double coach-house,
A cottage of gentility!
And the Devil did grin, for his darling sin
Is pride that apes humility.
- Samuel Taylor Coleridge, Devil's Walk (original title, Devil's Thoughts); written jointly by Coleridge and Southey.
- I am well aware that I am the 'umblest person going * * * let the other be where he may.
- 'Umble we are, 'umble we have been, 'umble we shall ever be.
- Parvum parva decent.
- Humble things become the humble.
- Horace, Epistles, I, 7, 44.
- God hath sworn to lift on high
Who sinks himself by true humility.
- John Keble, Miscellaneous Poems, At Hooker's Tomb.
- O be very sure
That no man will learn anything at all,
Unless he first will learn humility.
- Owen Meredith (Lord Lytton), Vanini, line 327.
- One may be humble out of pride.
- Michel de Montaigne, Of Presumption, Book II, Chapter XVII.
- Fairest and best adorned is she
Whose clothing is humility.
- James Montgomery, Humility.
- Nearest the throne itself must be
The footstool of humility.
- James Montgomery, Humility.
- Humility, that low, sweet root,
From which all heavenly virtues shoot.
- Thomas Moore, Loves of the Angels, Third Angel's Story, Stanza 11.
- I was not born for Courts or great affairs;
I pay my debts, believe, and say my pray'rs.
- Alexander Pope, Prologue to Satires, line 268.
- Humility is to make a right estimate of one's self. It is no humility for a man to think less of himself than he ought, though it might rather puzzle him to do that.
- Charles Spurgeon, Gleanings Among the Sheaves, Humility.
- The higher a man is in grace, the lower he will be in his own esteem.
- Charles Spurgeon, Gleanings Among the Sheaves, The Right Estimate.
- Da locum melioribus.
- Give place to your betters.
- Terence, Phormio, III. 2. 37.
Dictionary of Burning Words of Brilliant Writers (1895)
- Quotes reported in Josiah Hotchkiss Gilbert, Dictionary of Burning Words of Brilliant Writers (1895).
- Do you wish to be great? Then begin by being little. Do you desire to construct a vast and lofty fabric? Think first about the foundations of humility. The higher your structure is to be, the deeper must be its foundation. Modest humility is beauty's crown.
- Augustine of Hippo, p. 330.
- "O pity, great Father of light," then I cried,
" Thy creature who fain would not wander from Thee!
Lo, humbled in dust, I relinquish my pride;
From doubt and from darkness Thou only canst free."
- James Beattie, p. 332.
- Humility is, of all graces, the chiefest when it does not know itself to be a grace at all.
- St. Bernard, p. 329.
- Make me like a little child,
Simple, teachable, and mild;
Seeing only in Thy light;
Walking only in Thy might!
- John Berridge, p. 334.
- "He that humbleth himself shall be exalted." This great law of the kingdom of God is, in the teaching of Christ, inscribed over its entrance-gate.
- Thomas Browne, p. 330.
- Now as they were going along and talking, they espied a boy feeding his father's sheep. The boy was in very mean clothes, but of a fresh and well favored countenance; and as he sat by himself he sang:
"He that is down, needs fear no fall;
He that is low, no pride;
He that is humble ever shall
Have God to be his guide."
Then said Mr. Great Heart, "Do you hear him? I will dare to say this boy lives a merrier life, and wears more of that herb called heart's-ease in his bosom than he that is clad in silk and velvet."
- John Bunyan, p. 333.
- Then Christian began to go forward; but Discretion, Piety, Charity, and Prudence would accompany him down to the foot of the hill. Then said Christian, "As it was difficult coming up, so, so far as I can see, it is dangerous going down." " Yes," said Prudence, "so it is; for it is a hard matter for a man to go down into the valley of Humiliation, as thou art now, and to catch no slip by the way;" " therefore," said they, " we are come out to accompany thee down the hill." So he began to go down, but very warily; yet he caught a slip or two.
- John Bunyan, p. 334.
- I want to feel my own nothingness, I want to give myself up in absolute resignation to God, to lie prostrate and passive at His feet, with no other disposition in my heart than that of merging my will into His will, and no other language in my mouth than that of prayer for the perfecting of His strength in my weakness. I desire from the abyss of my own nothingness and vileness to cry unto God that He might cause me to do as I ought, and to be as I ought.
- Thomas Chalmers, p. 331.
- Humility is the root, mother, nurse, foundation, and bond of all virtue.
- Chrysostom, p. 329.
- Abraham teaches us the right way of conversing with God: "And Abraham fell on his face, and God talked with him." When we plead with Him, our faces should be in the dust.
- Richard Cecil, p. 332.
- Confess your nothingness and ill-desert before God. Distrust yourself. Rely only upon God. Renounce all glory except from Him. Yield yourself heartily to His will and service. Avoid an aspiring, ambitious, ostentatious, assuming, arrogant, scornful, stubborn, willful, levelling, self-justifying behavior; and strive for more and more of the humble spirit that Christ manifested while He was here upon earth.
- Jonathan Edwards, p. 331.
- Of all trees, I observe God hath chosen the vine, a low plant that creeps upon the helpful wall; of all beasts, the soft and patient lamb; of all fowls, the mild and guileless dove. Christ is the rose of the field, and the lily of the valley. When God appeared to Moses, it was not in the lofty cedar nor the sturdy oak nor the spreading palm; but in a bush, a humble, slender, abject shrub; as if He would, by these elections, check the conceited arrogance of man.
- Owen Feltham, p. 333.
- I pray often to God that He would keep you in the hollow of His hand. The most essential point is lowliness. It is profitable for all things, for it produces a teachable spirit which makes every thing easy.
- François Fénelon, p. 333.
- Let me follow in Thy footsteps, O Jesus! I would imitate Thee, but cannot without the aid of Thy grace! O humble and lowly Saviour, grant me the knowledge of the true Christian, and that I may willingly despise myself; let me learn the lesson so incomprehensible to the mind of man, that I must die to myself by an abandonment that shall produce true humility.
- François Fénelon, p. 334.
- They that know God will be humble,
They that know themselves cannot be proud.
- John Flavel, p. 329.
- The more we learn what humility is, the less we discover in ourselves.
- La Combe, p. 329.
- Humility is the grace which lies prostrate at God's footstool, self-abasing and self-disparaging, amazed at God's mercy, and abhorring its own vileness.
- James Hamilton, p. 330.
- Humility, what is it? It is a gracious gift of the Holy Ghost. It is the same disposition which the Psalmist called a " broken heart," and that consciousness of need which Jesus had in view when He said, "Blessed are the poor in spirit." So far as it has respect to God, it is that docility which is willing to learn what God teaches; that conscious penury, which is willing to accept whatever God proffers; that submission which is willing to do what God desires, and to endure whatever God deems needful.
- James Hamilton, p. 331.
- The reason why the publican returned from the Temple justified was that he had got that lowly and self-emptied mind to which the grace of God is welcome. It was not his standing afar off merely, nor his dejected eyes, nor his smiting on his breast, but his despair of himself and his hope in God's mercy — "God be merciful to me a sinner." And you will be justified, too, when, losing all confidence in the flesh, you learn to rejoice in Jesus Christ.
- James Hamilton, p. 335.
- The doctrines of grace humble man without degrading him and exalt him without inflating him.
- Charles Hodge, p. 334.
- Teach me. Lord, my true condition;
Bring me childlike to Thy knee;
Stripped of every low ambition,
Willing to be led by Thee.
- Henry Francis Lyte, p. 329.
- Be sure that your soul is never so intensely alive as when in the deepest abnegation it waits hushed before God.
- Alexander Maclaren, p. 329.
- The wisely cultivated man, conscious how insignificant a drop he is in the vast stream of life, learns his limitation, and accepts events with modesty and equanimity.
- Dr. Maudsley, p. 333.
- True humility is a Christian grace and one of the fruits of the Spirit, originating in a deep consciousness of sin past and present, and leading us to discover our nothingness in the view of God, our insufficiency for any thing that is good, and prompting us, as we feel our infirmities, to strive after higher and yet higher attainments.
- James McCosh, p. 329.
- They who know most of God on earth or heaven know that they know little after all; but they know that they may know more and more of Him throughout eternal ages.
- Humility, that low, sweet root,
From which all heavenly virtues shoot.
- Thomas Moore, p. 328.
- And so among the ruins of our pride, we grow to be loving children of the Most High.
- William Mountford, p. 331.
- O it is a happy thing to feel ourselves helpless and naught, for then the presence of God is felt to wrap us about so lovingly! Everlasting, infinite, almighty, — these are the words that strengthen us with speaking them.
- William Mountford, p. 332.
- I do not know what I may appear to the world; but to myself I seem to have been only like a boy playing on the seashore, and diverting myself by now and then finding a smooth pebble or a prettier shell than ordinary, while the great ocean of truth lay all undiscovered before me.
- Sir Isaac Newton, p. 332.
- The most of my sufferings and sorrows were occasioned by my own unwillingness to be nothing, which I am, and by struggling to be something.
- Edward Payson, p. 335.
- Humility is that simple, inner life of real greatness, which is indifferent to magnificence, and, surrounded by it all, lives far away in the distant country of a Father's home, with the cross borne silently and self-sacrificingly in the heart of hearts.
- Frederick William Robertson, p. 330.
- My God, I ask not of Thee the leaves of external consequence; I will be content to continue simple, lowly, and plain, if Thou wilt only give me grace to serve Thee and my neighbor. Outward pomp withers like a flower, but inward worth lasts even after death.
- Christian Scriver, p. 334.
- Not as men of science, not as critics, not as philosophers, but as little children, shall we enter into the kingdom of heaven.
- John Campbell Shairp, p. 332.
- When thinking of God, when beholding His glorious perfections, when rejoicing in the perfection of His government, and in the excellence of His designs, the humble heart adopts the language of Job: " I have heard of Thee by the hearing of the ear; but now mine eye seeth Thee: wherefore I abhor myself, and repent in dust and ashes."
- Gardiner Spring, p. 332.
- Heaven's gates are not so highly arched as king's palaces; they that enter there must go upon their knees.
- Daniel Webster, p. 330.
- The sufficiency of my merit is to know that my merit is not sufficient.
- There are a billion people in China. It's not easy to be an individual in a crowd of more than a billion people. Think of it. More than a BILLION people. That means even if you're a one-in-a-million type of guy, there are still a thousand guys exactly like you.
- It is a wholesome and necessary thing for us to turn again to the earth and in the contemplation of her beauties to know of wonder and humility.
- The humbleness of a warrior is not the humbleness of the beggar. The warrior lowers his head to no one, but at the same time, he doesn't permit anyone to lower his head to him. The beggar, on the other hand, falls to his knees at the drop of a hat and scrapes the floor to anyone he deems to be higher; but at the same time, he demands that someone lower than him scrape the floor for him.
- It is always the secure who are humble.
- We are all worms, but I do believe I am a glowworm.
- I am third. [Means God must come first in our lives, and our neighbour second.]
- Religion is to do right. It is to love, it is to serve, it is to think, it is to be humble.
- Too many people overvalue what they are not and undervalue what they are.
- In reality there is perhaps not one of our natural passions so hard to subdue as pride. Disguise it, struggle with it, beat it down, stifle it, mortify it as much as one pleases, it is still alive, and will every now and then peep out and show itself...For even if I could conceive that I had completely overcome it, I should probably be proud of my humility.
- After crosses and losses men grow humbler and wiser.
- It is unwise to be too sure of one's own wisdom. It is healthy to be reminded that the strongest might weaken and the wisest might err.
- The man who thinks he can live without others is mistaken; the one who thinks others can't live without him is even more deluded.
- Modesty is the lowest of the virtues, and is a confession of the deficiency it indicates. He who undervalues himself is justly overvalued by others.
- Modesty is the gentle art of enhancing your charm by pretending not to be aware of it.
- Glory is largely a theatrical concept. There is no striving for glory without a vivid awareness of an audience.
- Most of us retain enough of the theological attitude to think that we are little gods.
- I long to accomplish a great and noble tasks, but it is my chief duty to accomplish humble tasks as though they were great and noble. The world is moved along, not only by the mighty shoves of its heroes, but also by the aggregate of the tiny pushes of each honest worker.
- What kills a skunk is the publicity it gives itself.
- God created the world out of nothing, and as long as we are nothing, he can make something out of us.
- It is not titles that honor men, but men that honor titles.
- The grace which makes every other grace amiable.
- Don't talk about yourself; it will be done when you leave.
- Any party which takes credit for the rain must not be surprised if its opponents blame it for the drought.
- Talking much about oneself can also be a means to conceal oneself.
- You shouldn't gloat about anything you've done; you ought to keep going and find something better to do.
- There are two kinds of egotists: Those who admit it, and the rest of us.
- Do good by stealth, and blush to find it fame.
- If thou desire the love of God and man, be humble; for the proud heart, as it loves none but itself, so it is beloved of none but by itself; the voice of humility is God's music, and the silence of humility is God's rhetoric. Humility enforces where neither virtue nor strength can prevail nor reason.
- We would rather speak ill of ourselves than not talk about ourselves at all.
- Nobody stands taller than those willing to stand corrected.
- With people of only moderate ability modesty is mere honesty; but with those who possess great talent it is hypocrisy.
- Flattery is all right so long as you don't inhale.
- He who sacrifices a whole offering shall be rewarded for a whole offering; he who offers a burnt-offering shall have the reward of a burnt-offering; but he who offers humility to God and man shall be rewarded with a reward as if he had offered all the sacrifices in the world.
- Humility is good for all, but is an added richness to the rich.
- Valluvar in Tiruvalluvar: 125]]
- If every fool wore a crown, we should all be kings.
- I would rather have people wonder why there is no statue of me, than wonder why there is.
- Swallow your pride occasionally, it's non-fattening!
- Modesty: The art of encouraging people to find out for themselves how wonderful you are.
- It is far more impressive when others discover your good qualities without your help.